It’s not easy to admit that what you’re about to venture into is out of this world.
For those of you out there, fighting the good fight, creating your business and dream life is outside of the norm.
Everyone surrounding you wants to have your life but does not want to put the work in.
You however are a DO-er and you are going to do it all the way to the bank.
Your investment in yourself, your desire to grow and your interest in learning and designing your life attract more money to you and add more value to people‘s lives.
To bring more into your home is crazy.
It’s crazy because we live in a conforming society, where a person taking a chance is seen as an outcast or person establishing a different path is seen as a recluse but you’re not!
You are building your best dream life and if you fail it’s on you.
AND IF YOU SUCCEED ITS ALSO YOURS!
But let’s say you conform, let’s say you give in, you keep buying into this pressure, so that you can say you saved face in the eyes of others. Do they pay your bills? Do they investing you? Do they invest in themselves?
No they don’t!
You however are made of a different cloth!
Every single day that you put forth the effort to level up your life: you defied logic; you create the crazy;
But sometimes you have to be crazy to get what you want!
You have to be crazy to establish greatness.
You have to be crazy to move past normal.
And if you’re going to inspire anyone you better start with yourself because if what you’re doing is not inspiring, is not all breaking rules /norms, then maybe it’s not worth it at all and the work you’re putting forth will bring you nothing.
For now, my dream believers, stay crazy stay motivated and always remember level up your life.
I am not sure how to break this to ya but here goes:
" Once you set a goal you may have to set another goal!"
This is the number one reason people fail to follow through.
Everyone is so worried about making one goal happen and don't even bother to realize there are other steps and more goals and more goals to make and do!
You do not need to wait to know what your next level is!
You certainly do not need to wait to accomplish something to have a vision for what the next step can be!
You wanna make more money?
Set your money goals higher!
You wanna have a bigger client list or build a tribe?
Set goals around how many people you want to help!
SET YOUR GOALS!
SET YOUR NEXT LEVEL GOALS!
KEEP BEING INSPIRED TO SET GOALS!
Don't back down or be afraid or get caught up on the thoughts that you are on a constant goal setting treadmill!
You are not!
Anyone advising you that you are is clearly not been successful!
Bad advice always come from the mediocre willing to settle while you ambitious unstoppable sele keeps it going!
You are a powerful attracter, an ambitious warrior, and a goal setting bad-ass who takes names and makes s*#t happen!
Do not be fooled by those who gave up!
Be the BRILLIANT light and follow your money making/ best life living self all the way to the bank with your goals!!!
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When you need a message you always get an angel!
Don’t turn away right now and don’t discredit this message!
There will always be people that come into your life to speak good words, holy words, life giving words, look for them.
Be ready for them to help you!
Be ready for the push! Be ready for the good! Good thoughts, positive encouragement!
You know on your journey to level up on your dream to do great things they will come. it could be a person you just met telling you to keep following your dream.
Or a person who you have known your whole life telling you how much the work you do has impacted them.
On your journey to have more, there’s gonna be people who literally come in and want to wrap themselves up in the change that you’re about to make!
Sometimes I felt change was always internal you know. that it was the voice inside me alone. but when you start hearing people confirm what you see and have been working on there is no greater gift.
SO this holiday season! Be and angel and tell people what they are doing right! take the time to start a gratitude journal for 2018.
And I know the journey can feel like a long one but each moment invested in what you want is a moment invested in the empire you will build! Do not be afraid! There are angels all around us waiting for our success and needed our positive support!
Merry Christmas to the angels in all of us!
I have been working backwards of late!
I have totally been expecting and open and ready to receive.
HOWEVER, I have not been asking!
I ADMIT IT! I take Full responsibility!
While I may miss an opportunity that comes up and the odd ability to tune in to one thing consistently, I have to stay on top of is asking for what I want! WE ALL DO!
Saying that you 'know what you want' and actually taking the time to be introspective and plan it out are two very different things!
Really the core of me is afraid of asking that is why I do the following 5 things to ensure I am always keeping my requests at the top of my mind!
SO please take your time grab a Journal and make some changed today!!!
Your future matters!
Not knowing what you want to do is a sure fire way to ensure you get no where!
The world is waiting for you to show up!
I always go back to the moment I decided to be a coach, it feels like a long time ago but I put my mind to it at the time and just did it!
Another time when I saw the possibility to be a professional singer I said I would do it and so two years later I am more active than ever in that dream!
But I decided! I am grateful to all those along the way who helped and changed my life!
I know and recognize that if I had not decided, I would not have developed the skills or mastered the work.
If I had not decided I would not have told the right people who have fully supported and taught me how to do what I love!
If I had not decided the perfect job would not have come a long!
But I decided!
I made it happen!
I leveled up and mat the occasion head first!
The journey can be frustrating, taxing, sad, a total disaster at times but I decided and I take full responsibility for that decision everyday!
What is your excuse today?
Who is the boss of your future? Is it the extra hour of sleep? Or the doughnut you had for breakfast? Or the people who don't respond when you try to reach out?
If you want what you want and want to make it happen then DECIDE!
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Do not wait until 2018 has passed and is well into its third quarter to do what you have to do!
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I have to say that I have been on this life coach journey for some time and many of my programs have been successful. they have helped a lot of people advance their careers and businesses in a BIG way!
Most of all, the work that I do has been central to helping entrepreneurs and creatives build the confidence necessary to manifest their deepest desires on a very personal level.
We are on this planet to make our dreams happen and when we do not see it manifest it can be difficult to process.
How that happens is the answer we all seek.
I can write a post telling you exactly what to do but that is every post.
At some point you must stop asking what others do to get what they want and start analyzing what YOU WILL DO TO GET WHAT YOU WANT!
Are you willing to make the sacrifices necessary to level-up your life and business?
Are you willing to look at your patterns of failure and make them into habits of success?
While some of you can take a million years to decide if your
There are those of us out there who hear the drum and answer the call and say YES!
If you are ready! If you hear that drum! If you know 2018 is gonna be "The YEAR"! YOUR YEAR! Then its time for you to make it your year!
Take the steps that most scare you! Plan the trips that most ignite you! Give yourself into the pleasure, the rush of, the gotta have this energy that your dream and it's pursuit offers!
Do NOT BACK DOWN!
Face that dragon head on and do what you MUST to get what you want!
always remember to
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With success comes an attitude that I often see in Entrepreneurs and creatives and have myself been guilty of plenty of times. Please take a seat because this is about to piss at least one of you off or burst an ego bubble some people were never ready to hear...
Don’t be above doing the basics and showing up! Fully present and ready to take on whatever challenge! This goes even more so if you have been successful!
I am not talking about hiring a maid to clean your luxury apartment. I am talking about showing up fresh and ready every day, as if you are starting from scratch and hungry for more, when taking on the work to make yourself THE BEST.
No basketball player is above practice, no millionaires is above hard work, and no creative is above creating!
So get on your grind and own your basic model behaviors for success no matter how small the task!
Be the best in every situation!
And never need to apologize for not being present because how your do small things reflects on how you do everything!
Now of course I am not above reproach when it comes to this aspect and I own that I have been inconsistent at times with my own initiatives but when you recognize that you cannot be fully present for an endeavor you are investing your valued time into- LET IT GO!
Wayyyy before you get to laziness, or lacking in communication or worse ending in conflict within yourself or with others you effect!
Most of all and to my point in this post, be ready to do the work no matter how far you have come or what you have learned. We do not keep what we feel entitled to and any attitude or ego entangled in the mess one can create in that mindset, will build an irreversible reputation that, although unintended, will be proven right with one’s own actions..
So do the basics, show up, be present, hustle, pop your bubble and always be ready to LEVEL UP!
Are you a REBEL Creative?! Are you teeming with energy inside to bring your ideas to life? Are you holding yourself back from bringing your greatest mission to life?! If you are like I was just a few short years ago, wondering if you will ever make your dreams happen or your life better because your insecurities or blocks kept getting in the way THEN LOOK NO FURTHER!
It’s time to unleash the rebel creative inside teaming with energy to build, create and continue!
As the new year begins you will be faced with the question we all have to answer: will this be the year I make IT happen?!
Will this be my time? As we make our New Years Resolution the courage it will take to be that that person who makes your dreams come true is NOT SMALL! You have it within you but the years keep going by!!
NOT ONE MORE DAY!
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That is what I had to tell myself when I started this journey to create and inspire the millions that call on me to create and inspire! People ready to make their dreams to the next level!
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Some people are just not meant to fill the shoes you give them in our hearts. It is the reality for so many people in love and in friendship who are stuck waiting for people to show up how they want them to be.
Unfortunately people do not show up in your personally assigned costume. They show up broken, damaged, imperfect and sometimes even cruel. They show up to teach us we can be better or they show up to teach us how to be better.
Either way they are themselves and no matter who or what we want them to be they cannot change.
There is, however, a rare instance, almost a miracle of sorts. Wherein
For example, in a relationship, one can see the rare occurrence of a man or a woman being inspired for change. A person once shy is suddenly outgoing. A man once lazy is an inspired workaholic. A friend once ignorant of their negligence is the most devout. These and other examples are a result of an internal shift in that person. Sometimes no one has to ask other times it is pointed out to them.
In both cases the person in question makes a DECISION. “Will I continue to be an a**hole or will I take this opportunity to make someone else happy? Will my relationships be defined by selfishness or will it be about the selfless acts I can bring to this person’s life?”
Many cannot step up to the challenge. That is why I teach the art of self improvement because sometimes there is nothing you can do for that person but there is always something you can do increase and most of all recognize your true self worth!
Don’t sit around waiting for the heart breaker to finally give you the time of day, don’t sit around hoping your friends will celebrate you after all you do for them.
Speak up or move on. Or BOTH! But do not give into the game of waiting for another human being to give you the love you KNOW you deserve.
As soon as there are no reasons why you should not be "there" as in where you want to be you’ll be "there."
Right now there are constant, never ending, ever present blocks and obstacles and excuses!
The good news is you don’t have to listen to all the excuses!
You don’t have to listen to all of the bad things that could happen!
You don’t even have to listen to all the things that are already happening!
That’s your current state of affairs; we want to focus on is what our future state of affairs are going to be!
What are you gonna do to get yourself out of these problems?
What are you going to do to get yourself into the next level of your life?
What are you going to do to change the page on your life?
What are you going to look at what you have and not what you don’t have?
What are you going to do to build on what you have and not what you feel you can’t possibly attract into your life?
You can have anything you want!
The key is we must stop day dreaming and start believing!
I just wanted to let you know that it’s the end of the month.
It’s the last day of the last 31 days that you have had to completely change your life!
I’m not talking about becoming a millionaire overnight or becoming no. 1 on Youtube overnight or hitting the genetic lottery or finding the love of your life!
NO, you have had 31 days to change even just 1 habit that could bring you just a little closer to what you want in your life!
Did you do said habit every day? Do you even know what they are?
It’s not a coincidence that so many people are wondering, "How can I change my life?", when they were never taught that our habits mean everything!
That our decisions mean everything!
That waking up at five in the morning to go work out can literally be the difference between success and failure! I hate to talk about failure, because I don’t necessarily believe in it as a whole, like you’re going to lose everything, because you didn’t wake up at five in the morning to exercise but you definitely losing on the discipline that it takes to make you the BEST!
One little failure every day is all it takes to chip away at what you do!
You're definitely getting the body that you want! You are definitely losing on the way to establish a better tomorrow every single day you don’t decide to choose your habits.
So it’s 31st of October.
I want you all to reflect on the last 31 days. What are the habits that defined you? What are the things you did every single day? Did you avoid pain so you can have an easier ride a long life in the last 31 days? How did that turn out for you?
I’m going to ask you to own the fact that you are not stepping up! Most of all you are not alone! I avoided having critical conversations this month that directly influence my business' expansion! I did less than I could. Why? To avoid FEAR, PAIN, DISCOMFORT ECT!?
That I didn’t complete and move forward on the goals that I set out for myself is a shame. But guess what? at the end of every moth we get a RESET! That I didn’t know how to level up my life in this aspect and it is now affecting me. RESET! So today I switched it up and made the contacts and made an effort because I don’t want to see that I didn’t do a thing for this one goal!
Which brings me to the point of today’s article: it’s time to reach out and speak and talk and do and shine and make your goal list and stick to your goals for the next 30 days of November!
Make the decisions that are going to change your life because you only get one!
Every single month I press the reset button by writing down my goals on the first day and reviewing my results on the last day.
This month about 40% got done. I OWN IT!
NOW I am gonna take note and carry over the actions that feel most inspired!
The new year is upon us, and building the habits of being true to your word do not begin with a goal sheet that you make in January.
They begin when you decide that this is what you’re going give when you decide that every new goal is happening!
That’s why I made that video "It is Done" because as soon as you make that decision to have it all, it is done. So this month, or rather next month, tomorrow, I challenge you to sit down and write 10 goals small acceptable timed goals that will help you move your Dream forward.
Then I challenge you on November 30 to sit down with me again and review whether or not you’ve stayed true to your word.
If you can’t stay true to your word it’s a wonder what you can't seem to do it for anyone else. Don’t sit there and tell me "oh, I’m always true to my word" and"I always do everything for everybody else" if you’re doing everything for everybody else but you can’t stay true to what you want, you a failing at LIFE! You’re doing it to please someone else. You’re doing it to be liked You’re doing it to have something in return not necessarily outside of you but inside you that says I’m a doer but you don’t even do for yourself. So really you’re lying to yourself!
Let’s stop lying to ourselves right now and make:
Our priorities-> our goals!
Our joy ->Number one
Our story -> THE STORY we are proud to share!
Level up guys,
What is with us hiding our AMAZINGNESS!!
I can’t even believe that people want to live in a world where they blend in and are so afraid of standing out!
It’s not like you’re going to be the next huge reality star but I am asking, what do you do when your boss puts a spotlight on you? What do you do when you’re afraid of the outcome of the decision you made? What do you do when you are sitting there noticing that the rest of the world is not taking you seriously? What do you do when you notice that you don’t take yourself seriously?
Part of the issue of making your dreams happen is that you have to be publicly on display with what you want you have.
To make a decision that your fear is not going to dictate what you want out of your life. Is what you are doing good enough to stand and shine and do whatever it takes to make it happen!
The people who follow me my tribe my dream believers I’m asking you: are you ready to shine when it’s available?
Are you ready to step up when the opportunity calls? Are you ready to say yes every single time?
I was thinking back to when I started my journey so long ago to be the best coach.
I wanted to be the greatest support, to be the loudest voice among all the voices we let into our heads, including our own.
Then these voices inside and outside, telling me to settle down telling me not to be so loud telling me, even to this day sometimes, “hey you shouldn’t go that far, you know u hate this, your website is too loud or hey you’re doing to much or hey why don’t you just quiet down over” And on and on.
Butbwe MUST fight! We must make our dreams LOUDER!
There are plenty of people who want to be wallpaper but there are rare jewels, like you, that want to be the centerpiece! Believe me, everyone gets the opportunity to be the centerpiece but rarely do we take it with the grace it deserves!
Do not squander it on petty nonsense that other people pushed on us , that you put on yourself!
The current standards and expectations are not the reality of what you can accomplish.
Today I challenge you to take one step to shine.
In the United States of America we have a phrase: you either play yourself or you’ve playing another and it can mean a variety of things in our colloquial language. It basically means to make a fool of or to play the fool. But if you understand it differently please comment below with your definitions!
When you play success you’re really doing the latter which is playing yourself!
When you’re playing success you’re not only stopping yourself from what you decided to have but you’re also stopping yourself from what you could become. So you’re literally creating a self fulfilling prophecy!
It’s not easy to wait on a dream to happen; in fact it’s not easy to do the work to make it happen! But every time you make an excuse, every time you stop yourself, every time you’re not good enough, every time someone is "better than you", every time someone is more successful than you: you play yourself!
You act as if success is coming because you have all the heirs that it is here, when in fact you are only playing at success!
When you are in the trenches are you are actually making it so you don’t worry about anything else but that goal?! Not seeing anything but that goal?! Not stopping for anyone but that?!
Make it your priority!
Make it your life's work!
Dedicate your self fully and you won’t even worry about the nonsense that everybody else wants to wrap you up in!
It’s funny how I see so many people online and so many people working there butts off but so worried about what everybody else is doing or wasting time doubting in themselves!
So worried about the fake competition because guess what if your clients know you, if you show up, if you show them who you are, you there is NOTHING to worry about!
Everybody else's is BS nonsense you’re dealing with is not worth it!
ANY BODY can play success because any con artist can tell you that they’re changing lives that their words are so inspiring that what your dream can happen!
BUT do practice what they preach?
STOP playing success like the God is not noticing you are being ungrateful!
And start making success apart of EVERY part of your life!
No more questions!
IT IS DONE!
No more doubts
IT IS DONE!
No more fear!
IT IS DONE!
No more worry!
IT IS DONE!
No more sitting around and wondering when!
IT IS DONE!
The distance between who you are and who you want to be!
IT IS DONE!
The distance between your current reality and your dreams!
IT IS DONE!
The people that stopped you will disappear!
IT IS DONE!
The version of you that has stopped you, is gone!
IT IS DONE!
How high you will climb is infinite!
IT IS DONE!
How hard you will work for it, undefined!
IT IS DONE!
The dream that you asked for?
IT IS DONE!
Once you decide, IT IS DONE!
Once you surrender to it, IT IS DONE!
Once you dedicate all to it, IT IS DONE!
Once it is a no matter what dream, IT IS DONE!
IT IS DONE!
IT IS DONE!
IT IS DONE!
IT IS DONE!
You are going to have it all if you believe that what you want is already coming because a desire is a reality that WILL be lived!
IT IS DONE!
Please remember to LEVEL UP!
I am not even gonna start with the nonsense going on in regular life in politics.
But I do want to say: STOP putting all the garbage on the internet into your head!
Be mindful of the crap that is pushed by agendas and division for your entertainment and for human sport.
It is not even funny how crazy some stuff can get.
Always do yourself the favor of disconnecting and centering to your internal battery.
You have all the answers, it is inside not outside and when you seek to validate a belief by your outside then you are most definitely on fragile ground.
There are so many reasons to tune out and jump into mediation I cannot even begin to list here.
But for your sanity, take a moment and think about a day without the negativity from the outside and quiet your mind.
Be at peace knowing you will be OK no matter what!
Live that extraordinary and expanded life ready to be aware and create the greatness within you!
We all know them.
Sometimes we live with them.
Sometimes, they find us where ever we go...
They lurk and act like normal human beings.
But really they are inspiring in their convictions to bring you back to "reality."
Reality is the place I am now. How does knowing about it help me get to where I am going.
Reality is also very much based on many factors not having to do with the person facing said reality.
Like I said on my recent post:
"Your truth is not always THE truth"
That is to say, sometimes telling the "truth" will not set someone free but put into motion your desires over their's.
What you seek to help the person see is YOUR perspective on reality or even one path to solve a very individual problem.
On dealing with them:
I hope this helps in your discernment and that you are able to see that without making enemies, detecting Dream Killers is necessary to leveling up your life!
And please do,
So tell me what do you really want?
I am talking super super detailed.
Down to colors and design and even placement.
Can you do that?
Can you tell me what it is going to look like when all of your desires come true?
If the answer is 'NO', nine times out of ten I can let you know, it is probably not going to happen.
Why do you ask?
Because, honestly, you have not truly desired it enough to picture, research or place yourself in the way of what you want.
For example, my latest desire, I want a new car.
my current car is perfectly fine and the level of comfort in it is such that having the desire for a new car is difficult.
I am sooo comfortable, what change would possibly be better.
But let us be honest, my car is not just any car.
It so happened that the perfect person was selling the perfect car for me 4 years ago at the EXACT price I wanted!
NO LIE! Truly manifested and aligned! As requested in the perfect color.
Now things like that happen all the time for me, but I know I am not special, I have no magical talents or abilities apart from my clarity in what I desire.
I do this by creating my marvelous "Perfect Attraction list."
Its like a written prayer wherein you share (IN DETAIL) what you want.
Kind of like the Miss Clara in the movie War Room, except you don't have to dedicate a whole closet to it.
You are, however, most welcome to do that and by all means please share your photos of your perfect attraction list and where you are placing them below!!!!
I had thought to sell the car first about 2 weeks ago, then some random guy at the supermarket asked to but my car- out of no where!- but something inside said "no nope not the way/ path" I want it to happen.
So I rewrote my list to include a trade-in instead of a random buy. Even if it is not the fastest way I will get a new car instead of NO car and waiting.
But in the mean time I know what model, color details ect that I want.
I am not going to wait for the perfect moment to have that sorted!
It is time for you to sit down, list, wish, ask and if you are comfortable pray.
Don't wait until you are rich, to healthier, or in that bright shiny new job.
Take a breath and make your Perfect attraction list TODAY!
Please also remember the number 1 rule with this manifestation technique: DO NOT get stressed about what you are doing!
Think of it as a game. As your stress increases around the details your vibration or ability to attract what you desire goes down.
It is not a coincidence that indecisive people often have limited possibilities.
Even being picky can land you in a sticky neutral situation that does not allow you to bring in what you desire.
SO make your list, specifying the features but be open to allowing/ getting out of the way so what you want finds you!
And remember- Have faith God is always working in your favor!
Please let me know if you would like to see an example in the comments below.
I remember 4 years ago when I began my journey to light and positivity!
I was on on a mission to crawl out of the post grad depression and bring my confidence up to speed.
So my montra became: "I am enough"
I made post-it reminders and stuck them all over my room to bring my vibes up.
I can say it worked! Up until a moment I asked "for what?!"
"I am enough for what?"
What I discovered in my self acceptance was that I could only do so much until I wanted to do more.
I mean, we are talking about me, a person who could barely occupy a room or speak up.
Now what am I hoping for?
No I do not want empathy because really this whole notion of self is a first world basic problem that stopped me from achieving my goals dreams and desires for most of my now adult life.
The question of what I would do with this empowered self was stuck!
It was waiting for for me to answer the call and make it my own.
We can be enough until our faces turn blue from saying the same words but what are we enough for?
Will you stand up when people, who would be willing to take it all from you, still say it's not enough?
Will you put put on your boots and get to work on that dream project?
Will you finally travel the world and get paid get paid to do it?
Are you you enough for your dreams, goals and desires?
Most of all, are you enough to ask for what you want?
Every minute of your life?
Is enough enough for you?
Tell me me what you think in the comments below: are you MORE THAN ENOUGH?!
Type YES in the comments below and tell me why!
Level up already!
My latest YouTube upload!
"Well get on board the crazy train and let's take a ride in my mind"
Ok what does this say about what I think of my message?
What does it It say about what I think about today's blog post?
Does it tell you I think what I am about to say IS CRAZY?
Well, even though it may infact well be, this phrase gives you an even deeper look then what you may think!
I believe it lets you all know know that I feel like I too am on the ride with you all and that my mind is racinv to tell you, this message is so crazy it's gonna blow the pants off of you!
But seriously, it was the first words I could think to write today and I can lie and tell you how crazy it is and inflate an insignificant surface narrative, but I won't!
I will, however, peddle the truth to you!
This was was the first thing that came to my mind when it comes to the work I do which means, that I too am on the crazy train.
I do not believe it's self sabotage but I do think what we say off the cuff inside that most scares us, is the truth!
It is OUR TRUTH!
When you vlog, write or share the words that are going to inspire those who read and you are not noticing how direct those words may be, how telling they are to who you speak them to.
Even when you are just writing in your journal, the words that your subconscious is speaking through your pen IS YOUR INNER VOICE!
It will I'll tell you the borometer of what you feel you can achieve, what your inner heart desires, who you want to be as you evolve!
Most St of all it can be a window into where your thoughts MUST improve to have and be and do greater things!
So please DO activate your subconscious with the following checklist:
So keep connecting and channeling the light that each of us have!
Level up !
How would your life be different if you were doing exactly what you wanted to do right now?
What would it cost you?
More importantly what would you gain?
I remember when I began this journey, crying myself to sleep every night because I had to do what I hated day in and day out.
It does not have to be that dramatic for you but when the human body desires a change and a new influence there is a literal measurable reaction that takes place in our body on a celular level!
I will not even give you study after study that proves it I'll just let you think back on the last yummie food you were craving...,
How did it feel to yearn and eventually satisfy that desire?
That is what living ON PURPOSE IS LIKE.
You will satisfy what it is your heart is truly yearning for.
I am lucky now that I work more closely with people following their dreams, that I can see it first hand that spark that ignights from loving what you do or working towards it.
I can't tell you enough, if you feel far away from what you want, these 3 simple things it can shift your whole perspective:
1) Journal about what YOU WANT every single day!
2) Surround yourself with those who will push you and positively influence you!
3) Take 3 small steps a day toward your GOALS!
So some people can do this consistently but even I have fallen off the band wagon sometimes! The important thing is getting back on!
Did you stop writing music?
Did you stop competitive knitting?
Did you stop dreaming all together?
Well here is today's message: IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO START LIVING ON PURPOSE!
Get it! Do it! Make IT HAPPEN!
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If you feel feel like you are not living your true desitiny, if your dreams seem far, if your business is not living up to the standard you want, then it's time to work with me on not only clarifying but truly manifesting your On Purpose desired outcomes!
We are not meant to live small restless difficult lives out of allignment with who we truly are! We are the masters of our destiny shaping the reality we live in!
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And always remember #levelup!
What do you want?
The picture above is a view of one of my favorite places on earth: Maderas Beach, Nicaragua. This view, that I can confirm is spectacular, the walk up is not!
As is the case with most of our goals in life!
****Especially if you are an entrepreneur****
People either scare you silly or tear you down or set you strait but our thoughts alone, well at least mine, are scary enough!
But what is even more frightening is the thought that I could go back to a time when I followed ANYONE elses idea of my life.
If you're a freedom seeking, life to the fullest living, head over heels about freedom entrepreneur you know the rat race is not for you!
It's almost like an arrow that strikes from behind right through my heart pulling me towards freedom, LIGHT LIFE!
You can't even look away or let anything stop you .
It's kind of like climbing that hill to get THIS VIEW.
Its been about 5 years but I still remember how steep that hill was!
You and I are climbing, building something everyday step by arduous step. Until the sound of howler monkey's wake us up from this entrepreneurial journey! letting us know we made it!
But many entrepreneurs I see are still running the rat race!
On flat land following the cheese, or posting whatever they can to get 1 like and then complain about it!
It's NOT about the LIKES if you are in it UNTIL YOU SUCCEED!
IT'S NOT ABOUT THE SHARES WHEN YOU JUST STARTED!
Heck when you have been at it!
It's about your message.
It's about your work on this planet!
The people who make it KNOW THIS!
Don't give in to your petty, lower, status quo loving, inner sabotage!
BE THE ENTREPRENEUR WHO IS GOING TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES!
If you hit a wall climb it.
If you find a road block remove it!
If your page is silent REVIVE IT!
YOU are the life blood not your followers!
You make it juicy or sour!
Full or empty!
Most of all remember that at the end of this steep journey is a beach waiting for you.
Don't give up before you make it there!
For a while now I've been fearless promoting my brand. So much so that it has caused a bit of an identity crisis.
Really I sit back and think:
"why did I start this journey"
"when did it become about attention or money or whatever flavor of the month"
And on and on!
I was a life coach and then a business coach and finally a social media strategist.
I CAN do all these things.
In fact the biggest problem I have is that I believe I can do anything.
We all CAN!
But that doesn't mean I will or even that I want to.
And that brings me to today's mind hack.
We can all fill in the blank.
Be who we want.
I have built my brand on that.
But what if that blank is not what you are happy with after all?
What if you have tried it all and hit your wall?
Well, that is why it's BLANK.
You fill it in!
Again and again and again!
I CAN be whoever I want!
I CAN fill in the blank with whatever I WANT!
And so can you.
I have and will continue to reinvent myself.
Its the nature of my life.
I am here to give you the inspiration to do the same.
Fill in the blank with whatever MAKES YOU HAPPY, inspired, passionate.
But make it happen!
At every stage of what you plan in your life there will be a moment you will ask yourself, to quit!
It might happen all of a sudden or built on the momentum of disappointments over time.
I would say 90% of the times I have quit I just was not paying attention to the signs, the little messages your mind and body use to share if they want to cooperate or not!
For example, my most common tell is watching TV!
Whilst having a perfectly long list of intentions and goals, I often find myself binge watching another netflix show that takes me away from the long list at hand.
Not only does it make me feel out of flow but it also breaks esteem by stopping me from keeping my word to myself.
Everyone has a tell!
Everyone has a way they self sabotage and end up quitting and thereby regretting they ever started!
Yours may be similar which is why I am here to share my strategy to ensure you don’t get into a quitting slump!!
First we must establish that EVERY TIME you lose focus on your goals you are effectively quitting whether its for the day or the time being YOU ARE in fact QUITTING!
Lets not be side tracked in niceties and politeness, because your bad habits are killing your dream!
If I had nothing better to offer you then in this post it would be to recognize the ways you avoid doing the work you were put on this earth to do!
Second, now that you own it be ready to change it or to do what has helped me and schedule your bs hours.
Monday I have 6 hours scheduled of BS! Do nothing regarding my business and most of all focus on myself and my joy!
It's not easy but along with scheduling those BS Hours I encourage you to schedule equal or greater time on your Goals/ dreams.
For those of you too free spirited to schedule, may I remind you, a free spirit is often accompanied by a disoriented life. If you are happy there by all means enjoy it.
But if you know you have a purpose and a message to transmit then get your ish together and at least schedule ONE habit or goal you will work on to get something done.
All I want to get through to you today is how important it is to make time for your dream and if you are like my clients it can sometimes be difficult to pin you down you have too many passions too many projects too many priorities!
But these are NOT ALWAYS your true purpose.
So wake up and get down to the business of what you are meant to do to leave your legacy!
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Lets GET THIS DONE!
If you don’t stand for something you won’t stand for anything!