I Just Don’t understand how people can go about their lives thinking happiness is easy!
I mean or worse thinking happiness is not for them!
What I have found is that happiness is a choice we make at every moment. It’s a choice between letting our minds run free and taking control of our thoughts so they manifest what we truly desire!
But all the time I hear it’s easy to be happy! But the truth is it’s easy to choose happiness but its not easy to do the actions it takes to live in that choice.
You have to give up your brains predisposed mission of negativity. You have to give up absorbing negative information. You have to give up all thought of negative people AND you have to actively seek people places and thing of light!
I mean the secret calls it a secret but it's obvious. Every had a day that started with a thought?
For example, I recently received the honor of being able to take a step toward my dream of singing professionally. But when I started the project my thoughts surrounding the experience led to a sequence of events rooted in my deep innermost fear “I am so nervous, I am going to fuck up.”
And although I did not mess up the singing all of the actions before and after surrounding the event were well, let’s just say I am in a temporary cast for a sprained ankle.
Because my thoughts were rooted in disaster, disaster found me. OH BOY! IT ADOPTED ME FOR A MINUTE. But then as the dust cleared I was left looking at a crowd applauding wondering “HOT DAM WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME” I spent all that time worrying when I could have been living in that moment!
Well that my friends this the power of a negative thought but multiply that power by ten and that is the power of a positive thought! Had I rooted my thoughts on the joys of finally catching up to one of my souls many dreams maybe this weekend would have been different but alas I can only speak on what is to come!
Happiness. Choosing it when your mind has evidence to the contrary is so freaking hard. But that evidence will have NO strength when facing your will and determination! The road to happiness is not paved in gold, it is filled with sacrificing thoughts and relationships that NO LONGER SERVE YOU!
So please next time someone tells you “just be happy” let them know you will because you choose to control your thoughts. You choose to create your reality. You choose to pick up your mat and walk your dreams’ path every day!
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Clari is a success coach, author and speaker who teaches people all over the world how to be the creators of their dream reality one thought at a time!